I’ve never given head before, it just never came down to it. The first time it came down to it was in my last relationship but I still never did it. I’m in a new relationship now and I still can’t do it. I want to do it so bad, but I’m not sure why it’s so hard for me.

I do have a hard time with intimacy, I just can’t make the first move, but once my partner makes the move I’m all in. I think I’m just afraid the head won’t be good. I want to be good at it. It’s not hard, it seems to be simple. Am I overthinking it?

I’m starting to get insecure about this issue and feel like I just shouldn’t be in a relationship. I feel like he’ll just get upset if I take my time. I’ve almost done it, but always backed out.

Any tips?