Help! Suggestions Please…

Please no hate as I am trying… this post is going to be kinda long so I’m going to post the main question here. What should I do if I keep getting denied prenatal care?

Here is the back story. I am currently 29 weeks and 1 day pregnant. I am also a type one diabetic making this a high risk pregnancy. I currently have a two almost three year old who was born five week premature. With this baby I hopped on to the prenatal care as soon as possible (this was in Illinois). I was seen at 10 weeks, 15 weeks and was suppose to be seen at 20 weeks for an anatomy scan. I also was seen by a cardiologist to get the baby a cardioechogram (they said her heart looked perfect). At the 20 week appointment I was suppose to get an anatomy scan. My husband is in the military and was suppose to be able to stay home with our two year old. Well he got called in to do something. I tried coming in with my son. I had him in a stroller so he’d be in his own space mask on and he’s well behaved he had his iPad and just sits quietly while he has it. However due to their covid restrictions they refused to see me. I couldn’t reschedule that appointment due to us moving to what I though was San Diego two weeks after. That was fine I had prenatal care set up in San Diego already. However, my husbands orders were messed up and we are now in Virginia until the end of April 2022. I struggled to get a PCP appointment but finally got one so I could get my tricare referral. I sent my records to the first place I was referred… they denied me due to “inadequate prenatal care”. I got a second referral and same reason for denial.. they actually took a week to get back to me with that denial… I applied to a third place got denied for the same reason… I tried a couple other places and are still waiting for answers, but I’m afraid I’m going to get the same answer. WHAT SHOULD I DO!? I feel so stuck and just want to make sure my baby girl is okay…

I forgot to mention I also had three miscarriages before this pregnancy.