What should I do

Does anyone here have in laws or prospective in laws they just cannot stand? I couldn’t stand my ex husbands parents and my new bf I can’t stand his either. I feel like these guys I get with are mommas boys and I get so sick of them knowing everything about me, like things I didn’t okay with my bf to tell them. Personal things. Or petty things. Personally I feel like it’s my right to broadcast my own info. So I’m getting to the point where I’m telling everyone everything bc I used to be hush hush so it didn’t cause issues with my bf. Now I’m learning not to care anymore bc he makes me look like the bad guy. So with that said, I’ll probably be a single mom. Which is fine I don’t have an issue with it bc I do want my baby to be healthy and happy! I just get annoyed by people having to tell everyone everything even when it doesn’t concern them at all. Idk maybe I’m overreacting but this is honestly the way I’ve always felt even before I was pregnant. Like earlier in the car my bf was talking to his mom about her divorce and he said well she don’t like hearing about this so I’m not gonna subject her to listen she said well nobody likes to hear about it and he says well it’s not her issue it don’t concern her. Which it don’t for now but it might concern my baby which in turn concerns me. Anyways he said he wouldn’t talk about it bc he dropped me off at home and going home to her can talk all night but yet he still kept talking about it non stop. So once we got to my house I just had him drop me off and he can be on his way. Idky it’s so wrong to not have them involved so much. He says he can’t be with me if they ain’t involved that much basically and to me that’s just too much involvement when we’re both adults old enough to do things on our own.

I just want to be able to live with my bf away from them but he doesn’t ever want to move out of their house. Yeah maybe I’d be better off single which I really don’t mind. Then I can share my business when I want. I just don’t need his family I have my own. They are very one sided people, and try living with your in laws. They would be involved with every disagreement we got into since were in their house. Like I said I don’t live there but I’ve been there enough to know what it would be like if I did live there. I just can’t live with the in laws. It doesn’t work for me. And if I’m the problem that’s cool, doesn’t affect me any. I have to do what makes me happy in life and raising my child and my bf calling his mom every time something is wrong is not ok. I’m my baby’s mother, not another female. It’s pretty complicated to understand bc I can’t say the entire story but yeah I recently told my family if my child has a disability that my bf can’t raise it. They said he’s very selfish and that’s not right to say or even do. They think he will leave me if something is wrong with baby. Which I hope not…his mom also told me if I got an abortion nobody would look at me any differently. Like no. I’m keeping my baby and I’m going to love it unconditionally. They don’t have too but that’s my plan.