Hey guys, so my bf had a long term relationship of 3 years before me and they both lived together in 3 different houses over the years. They weren’t a great couple, had a lot of issues with immaturity, communication and she ended up cheating on him.

We’re moving in together in February and he doesn’t seem to think it’s a big deal at all. I’ve lived with housemates before but I think moving in is a big milestone in the relationship and I feel like he should treat it like it is. I know he’s a classic boy and doesn’t think it’s a big deal cause he’s done it heaps before but that relationship didn’t last and I want him moving in with me ti be different.

Am I overthinking it or should he be more invested in what I’m trying to say?