Hey everyone, I really wanted your opinion on what is going on with my relationship.

I’ve been in a committed loving relationship for 14 months with my best friend of 7 years. I love him so much but I’ve been getting so upset with him recently. I don’t know why I’m so upset with him and I get so angry with myself for doing so. I have been feeling pretty depressed lately (seasonal depression) and I don’t feel like myself.

Some examples are we were taking about his cousin and then he calls him to make plans with him this weekend, even though we had plans. When I confronted him about doing that, he said it could’ve been something for us to do together. After that I was upset the whole day because I felt unconsidered. I had been looking forward to hanging out with him but I felt that after that instance I didn’t feel loved or cared for.

Like I said I love him and I don’t want us to continue going through this. I feel like I can’t laugh or enjoy myself anymore with anyone. I feel angry all the time and I can’t control myself. Anyone else going through this? Any advice?