Sorry for my ranting in this post. But I’m keeping it up for too long. I know some of you might saying that move out, but we are not financially stable to have my own place, so we have to stuck up with in law. Especially parents in law, I’m not against their old generations, but sometimes they really stubborn and old fashioned on the advices. They will getting interfere in everything I do. Especially, I changed my baby nipples and pacifiers every 2-3 months, they said that I’m too wasted, some of other parents even haven’t changed for just a year. I explained that because of hygiene purposes, (plus the PPE plastic if used too long will not good for baby), they said that I’m overthinking and my brain is just too simple to believe in everything doctor or expert said.

Since my baby was young, they keep use old folks ways to take care, some of them are good, I will follow. But some of them against scientific ways and affect baby health, I refused and yet they will be unhappy. Basically what I bought to use for my baby, they also will want to give a comment, said I’m wasted, why must buy, why can’t use traditional ways to do. Im not sure if I’m too much, but I really have enough. Sorry for my complaints, but I have nowhere to vent since my husband said I’m overreacting sometimes.

P.S: I’m not a good cook, so my in laws cook anything I will eat. Some certain things I can’t, I will order outside because I don’t want to upset them, but they also will say why must eat out. Even I’m not working right now, but I’m using my own money for everything I buy, I never use theirs.