Husband hates “the pressure”

Hi ladies, I need help and don’t know how or what to do. My husband and I have been ttc for a year on and off. All the labs have been normal, but he’s now over the “pressure” he feels when it’s o time. He wants it to happen naturally, but with our conflicting schedules we can go 10 days without bd and sometimes we only bd once in our fertile window, reducing our chances. We love each other a ton but I feel like I’m more invested in ttc than he is. I genuinely feel bad because I know he doesn’t like to plan and wants things to just happen, but I feel like I’m losing my mind with each negative test. Did anyone go through this? If so, any tips on how to not make him feel pressured?