Would you feel comfortable with your SO being friends with someone like this?
Long story short, a few weeks ago, my boyfriend’s friend started drama between the 3 of us and then “cut him off”. The drama, imo, was really middle school level (we’re all in our 20’s 🤦🏼♀️). My boyfriend is contemplating being friends with her again but I’m really uncomfortable about the idea. This is basically my feelings on the situation and her in general:
* She basically used him - always asked for favors and would be super tacky in how she would ask (blowing his phone up, giving really short “deadlines”, etc.)
* She is trans but never disclosed that she was to the men she was talking to then would complain to him about how “men suck” for ending it when they found out
* She was super negative - always bitching and complaining about SOMETHING
* She was using a text app to pretend to be her own “stalker”/“bully” to act victim to my boyfriend and ONLY my boyfriend (long story but basically it became super obvious the more I talked to her)
* When I busted her on it, she tried to hurry and tell my boyfriend “well you can thank (my name) but we’re not friends now” and made a fake text app profile of me and texted herself to say I was “bullying her”
* The next day, she texted him saying attention-seeking stuff like “I wish we could be friends again but i don’t know if we should right now because I don’t want to put everything on you”
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