My fiancée and I have been fighting frequently and having hard times. We sorted some stuff out and he told me that he wanted to start being more physically affectionate again (hugs, little kisses, hand holding, etc.). Well, today I remembered how hard of a childhood he had and I wanted him to feel loved so I went and gave him a long hug. He was really uncomfortable :/ he looked upset and had sad eyes. I don’t know what I did wrong. I didn’t tell him why I was hugging him.

Maybe I’m overthinking but he had those sad eyes someone does when they don’t want to hurt you. I have no idea what happened. He said he thought I was being overly affectionate :(

I would like y’all’s opinions and experiences, please.

Have a good day.

Edit: I asked him and he’s avoiding answering. I’ve been affectionate for the past two years and normally he loves it :( it’s just lately that we haven’t been as much. I feel so sad. We’ve also not been having sex because I have pain with penetration. My family has always been very affectionate and lovey. We hug and tell each other every day how much we love and appreciate each other. I live with my fiancée btw.

Update: we broke up 🥴