Help orgasming

Jenna

I have never masturbated regularly and I have a hard time getting into it. However, I've been having some trouble reaching orgasm with my partner and it's like we're in some sort of slump and he's not

putting much effort into helping me get off either.. so now I'm trying to figure out how to get there alone.. any toys recommendations, tips, tricks??? I can use all the help I can get.