Should I allow father at the birth of baby
My husband has been unsupportive the past 3 months of me being pregnant and we are due early next year. He hasn’t offered money to buy anything for the baby nor checks up on me besides a dry text saying “hope you both are well.” He’s currently out of state doing a program for work and will be done before baby is born. He promised he would be supportive throughout but stopped trying and it has caused me a lot of stress. I have been an emotional wreck coping through this and feeling alone throughout the pregnancy. He wants to love the baby so he claims. Yet emotionally abuses me calls me bitch etc.. But doesn’t realize how much it’s affecting me which also affects the baby.. He says he doesn’t want to be with me because of our past relationship issues. Yet 70% were because of him having anger issues & physical abuse.. and I stayed because I didn’t want to give up on our marriage and was hopeful of it getting better. Now a baby is involved but it’s like I’m doing it alone… I know he wants to come for the birth but a part of me is building all this resentment towards him because he wants to show up at the end and wasn’t around rest of the pregnancy. I don’t know if I want to see him there on such a special day for me and the baby. Especially if it stresses me out more… am I wrong in feeling like this? Or should I let him be there. He doesn’t call or text really and is expecting me to answer and notify him when I go into labor.. 😒
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