Toxic relationships - is it the person or the couple?

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I just got out of toxic relationship and am trying to wrap my head around what I experienced.  He is now with someone new and I wonder if things will be better in a different relationship.  Do you think some people are just toxic or do you think it is the pairing that brings out toxic?

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It can be both. Every situation and relationship is different.

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It can be either. My brother was verbally/mentally/emotionally abusive to his first baby mama, and now with the 2nd and 3rd he's become physically abusive. I don't believe he's capable of having a healthy relationship. But plenty of people leave bad relationships and find healthy ones after.

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Both. Sometimes people are just not a good match.
They saying opposites attract for example. Two hot tempered people might be similar but clash

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I think it can be both or either or. Different people do bring out different sides of you. There is definitely someone in this world capable of bringing out the worst in you. I know in my past me & my partner had both been toxic - it was like a negative energy that kept getting fed and passed back & forth. I don’t consider myself a toxic person but I know I was while I was with him, it was almost impossible not to be. I’m in a healthy relationship now with a man who brings out the best in me. I learned a lot from the toxic relationship & I let it change me for the better. Your environment can dictate behavior, if you’re in a toxic one it is completely plausible you will start becoming toxic too. Or pick up toxic tendencies. I think the word “toxic” gets tossed around too often these days … also if you stay with someone who treats you crappy for a long time , you likely pick up coping mechanisms and subconscious behaviors that can be viewed as negative, just because you were protecting yourself from a traumatic person. We are always responsible for fixing ourselves , but I think the answer can definitely be both & depends on the situation.

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Toxic people are toxic no matter who they are with love. I got out of a toxic relationship and am now in a new one. He loves me and makes me happy I’m not toxic towards him at all. The other one Chile I wanted to fight him everyday. It’s energy when some toxic is around you it will bring out toxic traits im you. He will treat her the same or worse. Hopefully she sees it fast. 
Happy you are free. I don’t know you but you deserve better💝

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It definitely can be either though in my
Reading I’ve learned that if you’re wondering if you’re the toxic one you’re not the problem.

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It can definitely be either

Toxic relationships - is it the person or the couple?

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