Hi all, just looking for genuine advice as I’m at a loss.

My husband can’t stand my mum, and I admit she’s a colourful human but she doesn’t mean to do things to annoy him.

She arrives at our house unannounced at times, or he feels that she overrules him in areas.

We see her often bc she offers to care for our 2yo two days a week so we don’t have to pay for the extremely expensive childcare.

He goes on rages to me, is nasty to me when she’s been here, says awful things about her which upset me.

My problem is that I just want a happy marriage and am trying to put my marriage first. I don’t want him to feel awful yet I don’t want my mum to be cut out either.

Back story is I also don’t get on with his mum as she’s plain rude to me (tells me I still look pregnant etc yikes). However I have his mum over twice a week and I just ignore her meanness and move on to keep the peace.

I feel exhausted and upset by it all and would love some advice if anyone has any.

✌🏻 from one tired mama to the next x