Me and my bd have been together 5 years I’m no longer happy in our relationship. Things aren’t the same , he’s not the same , I’m not the same . We can both tell it’s not working out anymore but our son, we don’t wanna hurt him . We both had pictured a happy family we’re both parents stay together but I know pretending that everything is okay is only gonna hurt our son at the end . I don’t know to to bring the conversation up , I don’t know how to say what I wanna say without my words being used against me or used to put my son against me cause I’m ready to call quits. I’m not gonna stop him from seeing his son or put his name in the system I just don’t wanna seem like the “bad mom” for standing up for myself and and taking action of my life again. I just don’t know to to come to him about it all