Sooooo…yeah.

Uhm, my SO and I finally decided to start doing holidays together last year and we’ll since covid that didn’t exactly happen so this year was the first official year.

We’ve kept things pretty relaxed with Halloween and all the little holidays before…but we’ve made it to major holidays and things are uhm. We’ll say bumpy.

We planned for the day of thanksgiving to be at his moms house and then for Saturday to be with my family since my family has a lot of first responders and government workers in it…including myself. I used holiday time that I was saving so I could attend both days, not the point though.

I packed a bag and was ready to head out with him after taking care of our dogs and he gets a call from his mom, she’s going on and on about how she wants family to stay small and that it wasn’t even really that important that I come. Well HE DOESNT STOP HER? He just says okay and let’s me know that I’m staying home with the dogs, I’m not gonna lie…I’m sad as fuck.

My entire family is thrilled to meet him and allow him to come to holidays and we’ve even talked to my dad about having him come in the family fishing trip we do. What I’m trying to say is we do our best to include him.

His mom doesn’t like me and continues to cut me from things and this is the first Time she’s done it on a big event. My dad is pissed at my SO now because he didn’t stick up to his mom and stay home with me…and now he’s debating on uninviting him from the one on Saturday. The last thing I want is the holidays to be all fucked up.

What makes this even deeper is I’m possibly pregnant ( waiting to see the Doctor to do a confirmation scan.) and this is creating a divide in my family and I truly love my SO but I don’t know what to do or what to say.