How do you feel about The Who comes first topic ?

Question

Is anyone else annoyed by the “who comes first…wife, daughter, or mother” topic ? I will never put my husband in the position where he feels that he has to choose me over his mom or daughter. I think it’s tacky and shows insecurity about the relationship.

Answer

I don't think they can be answered under one blanket because it depends on the actual situation. Like sure your wife can come first if she has to go to the doctor and your mom needs to go get her nails done. Or your mom will come first if she needs to go to the hospital and your wife wants to go to the movies. There's no definitive.

Answer

I don’t see a problem with couples discussing how they prioritize their life together. The #1 priority should always be the family you chose to make, so someone prioritizing their mother over their wife or kids is definitely a problem and indicative of the respect they have for their wife. Unfortunately, adult relationships are sometimes put in the position to have to pick (ex: toxic in law relationships). If you don’t understand the struggle of that topic, then I’m guessing you’re lucky enough to not have conflict with your in laws. I don’t think there’s a right or wrong for how a couple chooses to prioritize their relationship with each other and the relationship with their kids though. I always see both sides of that argument.

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I think it’s problematic for sure. I’ve seen people on this app say they’d pick their husband over their kid in a life or death situation 😐😐😐😐

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The main family comes first so if you're married your wife and kids come first secondary is each other's family.

How do you feel about The Who comes first topic ?

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