Christmas Family dinner

I would really love for us (husband and I) to host a Christmas dinner for our families. But what’s stopping me is that my husband wants to include a couple of family members that we don’t get along, just for the sake of not causing some drama. And I’m not going to waste my time in the kitchen preparing food for people I don’t want them there in the first place. So I don’t see any way for us to be going through with it, ever!

He talks about how nice it would be, but I’m not willing to cause a fight with him for it.

I find this so ridiculous!