So my daughter will be turning 1 year old in January and we plan on doing a birthday party all together even though baby daddy and I aren’t together it was my idea that we can do something for our daughter together with his family even though they don’t like me I was trying to leave the past behind, but everytime I tell him let’s do it at a park he says we’ll you’d have to ask my sister and see what she says I told him we are the parents though we should make that decision, then today he tells me she wants to do it at her friends house am I over reacting because it just feels like she’s the one already planning this and I have no say in where I wanna do it? What should I do? I don’t want to cause problems but I’m starting to think we might have to just do 2 separate birthday parties.