I bought my first dildo online should I be ashamed? (I’m 19)

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I only ask this is because my parents have been very strict on me about sex and really make it seem taboo. I want to feel good but I just feel so damn ashamed….

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Not at all! Exploration is healthy and NORMAL and our society is so bad at shaming people for this natural part of being a human. Add religion and forget about it! Please don’t feel guilty - good for you for wanting to explore your body in a SAFE way!!

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You are so young there is nothing to be ashamed of when it comes to sex as long as it is consensual and doesn't harm anyone. Some parents just can't see their kids grow up and become sexually active. Also your mother didn't get pregnant on her own and most probably your parents still share intimacy just fine. I know gross the idea of your parents, but just to make a point, you get me.

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god no! i bought my first one at 14, and now i have a whole range of them!! if you’re worried about parents finding them or hearing them let me know and i’ll give you a range of tips, never feel ashamed for wanting to make yourself happy, god knows men rarely ever know how to do it right smh

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just bought my first vibrator and dildo yesterday! waiting for it to come in, a little nervous but pretty excited as well 😏😌

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I was in a similar situation, I had just moved back in with my parents, (who are religious and kinda hypocritical) I had just broken things off with a serious relationship and I just wanted to have something to help with the frustrations and stuff so I ordered one. Well... my nosey mom (whom I love very much) had this awful habit of wanting to read my mail because I lived under their roof. I manages to get the box away from my mom but she made a huge deal about it infront of my dad and i was SO EMBARRASSED!!! UGH! Like why would she do that? (I was super mad at the time) but then I realized that stuff is super normal. And I found out my mom had stuff, she even did a sex tape with my dad! (Which I really didn't wanna know, but... you know) ...Anyway long story short, you do you babe. Don't feel ashamed for wanting to explore your sexuality and interests like that. Everyone has urges and curiosity lol 😊💛

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Absolutely not! While you're at it, get yourself a vibrator and it will CHANGE.YOUR LIFE! Lol

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better than having sex and the risk of pregnancy and STIs

I bought my first dildo online should I be ashamed? (I’m 19)

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