I had to raise my little sisters when I was 7. I raised them until I was 19 and moved out. My mom has never wanted to be a parent so pawned them off on other people. Well my sisters dropped out their freshman year of high school and just smoke and drink all day every day. They don’t get jobs they just find “sugar daddies”. The only time they talk to me now is if they want money. They lie and say they need food or tampons but then they spend it on weed. They’ve been non stop high for years to the point you don’t even know when they’re sober anymore. When you’re talking to them it’s like a brick wall. They’re just completely zoned out even sober. They start so much drama constantly. They lie about every little thing and they just don’t want to work or make anything of themselves. They refuse therapy. Am I a bad big sister for just wanting to cut off contact? I’ve tried so hard to help them find jobs but they want me to put in their applications, ask the employer all the questions they have etc. they’re so lazy. And if I don’t give into them asking for money they say I’m just acting stuck up because they’re black and I’m white. (They’re mixed) like what?? That has nothing to do with it. I’ve literally raised them and I’m at my end. I did as best I could as a 7 year old and I guess it’s my fault they’re turning out this way but I can’t take it anymore.

They’re 18 and 19 now