I’ve been dating this guy for about a month . He’s super nice , but the more I spend time with him the more I realize We jumped into a Relationship without really knowing what I was getting myself into . I started noticing red flags .

1. He’s overly friendly to people and it makes me uncomfortable. He basically told me to get over it.

2. Hes childish . He made a joke about having sex with one of my friends and thought it was soooo funny

3.One of my acquaintances were nice to him and complimented him, he assumed she like him . He started making comments saying that if we weren’t together she would definitely go after him. He likes attention from other people it seems like sometimes .

4. He’s CONSTANTLY talking about the past and wondering about his ex and her friends . This one bothers me the most. Not even just his ex , he is constantly talking about girls he dated in the past and how he felt about them …. I thinks it’s so weird that I constantly have to hear about it after I’ve already expressed it makes me uncomfortable . I definitely think dating history is important but I can also tell it bothers him still , like he’s not over it . It’s not just one girl it’s multiple different girls . When I bought it up he basically cried and thought I was breaking up with him when I was simply expressing that I don’t think he’s ready for a relationship because he has some healing to do .

5. All of his ex’s seem to have easy access to him . All they have to do is say they want to be his friend and he’s just down for it.

6. He cares wayyy too much about what people think to the point where it affects our relationship and I feel like it would continue to do so .

7. He also lies about the smallest things . He lied about having a Twitter account and I literally saw it with my own eyes … when I confronted him he still continued to lie . Also , he walks one of his female friends home after her shift at 12 am. That’s an agreement they had before we even started dating but I definitely think it’s weird considering she isn’t his girlfriend and he honestly acted like it was a secret when I saw him and asked him about it .

Am I being unfair or are these truly red flags and I should save myself while I’m not in too deep?