Am I lesbian?

Hey guys! I’ve been having a lot of trouble with my sexuality lately. I fell in love with my best friend for a year+, she didn’t like me like that so I accepted it, I started going for girls and having foreplay with them and it felt right, I really enjoyed it. I’ve had sex with guys before but I have never felt good during sex, it’s always felt wrong, uncomfortable and I can never get wet. When I think about girls I have many fantasies, I never have fantasies about men. Every time I see a cute guy I can tell they are cute and all. Although I don’t want to date/have sex/ talk to them in that way, all I wanna do is be friends. On the other hand with girls I want to make them feel special, tell them how beautiful they are and take them out on cute dates. Before I considered myself as bi but now I’ve wondered if I’m lesbian as all my attention goes to women and I can’t seem to see men in that way