I am a bridesmaid in a friend’s wedding at the end of August and my husband I recently started trying to conceive our first child.

My friend showed us a dress she wanted us to get and so I asked her if the dress comes in maternity sizes as it’s a possibility I would be pregnant by that time.

Ever since I told her I could be prego at her wedding she’s been a ball of stress. She is so concerned that if I become pregnant soon the wedding would be too close to my due date. At this point I have no idea when we will be pregnant so I understand if she decides to take me out of her bridal party so she doesn’t have the “risk” of me not being able to be there, but it’s kinda awkward to make that decision now before anyone else even knows we are trying to conceive. I know I’m kinda rambling here but does anyone have any advice for what to do or say to her in this situation?