Libido Issues

My boyfriend and I have been together (he’s 25 and i’m 23) for five years. We both have fairly high sex drives but his is a bit higher than mine. On average, we have sex twice a day which I thought was good enough considering we’re both med school students and we both work. But yesterday, he sat me down and explained that he thinks we’re not having sex enough. He feels like four or five times a day would satisfy his sex drive, and explained that two times a day wasn’t enough for him.

Though I do have a high sex drive, more than two times a day is a bit excessive to me. Realistically, graduate school and hours of work drain so much energy out of me and by the end of the day, all I want to do is rest. Physically, two times a day is already doing a number on my body and I often wake up sore/in pain.

I have tried to explain this and to compromise, I have offered doing more oral and/or hand stuff on a daily basis but he’s still not satisfied and says “it’s not the same”. I feel like we’re kind of stuck and I’m not sure what to do.