Can abusers change with therapy?

Question

I just found out my twin sister is getting verbally abused by her boyfriend. But to be honest, I think both are verbally abusing eachother. I think I could be wrong. Please no judgment I’m genuinely concerned for my sister. 
My sisters bf has a lot of internal issues. He has many problems starting from home. He comes from a broken family. He is always angry and my sister has been putting.
Sometimes just screams at her when they argue. The other day my sister was crying because he called her a bitch. I was very mad! 
She showed me texts and I think both were wrong. It all started with her telling her bf to remove a girl off social media so he got upset and caller her a controlling bitch. But then…
My sister posts a pic and he blocks her and tells her she wished she was dead. All of this is getting out of hand. Calls her a mother fucker. Calls her a big turd. Name calls her insecurities like her weight. She then judges his body back. This is getting on my nerves because I hate seeing her cry. 
I want to tell my mom but she says he will change with therapy???

Answer

Of course they can. But you don’t wait around for it to happen. Leave until they realize they need therapy, if they ever do, and heal themselves. Then you can talk about a relationship again. Staying with an abuser is just enabling the behavior. What consequences are there for acting like a shitty person if everyone always stays??

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I believe yes ONLY if he wants to change..

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I will say no. And the only reason I say this is because I highly doubt any abuser actually realizes that they have issues and need professional help.
Sounds like your sister and her bf are both toxic. And sometimes it almost becomes a defense mechanism to be toxic in response to their toxicity.
In any case, the only way they’ll be able to change and heal is if they do it separately from one another.

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He can change, but not with her. There is so much bad at this point that their negativity is feeding off of each other. Sounds like she needs therapy, too. Best course is to break up, seek individual help, & stop contact with each other. Eventually they might be able to be on talking terms again, but it should only be to continue encouraging each other - never to restart the relationship. A relationship that toxic cannot recover.

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Maybe. If they actually want to change and are willing to put in the effort. But honestly, just like a cheater, you don’t get a second chance with me. You crossed a line that can never be uncrossed and never fixed, so you’re dead to me 🤷🏼‍♀️

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I think it could happen if they see what they are doing is wrong and genuinely  want to change . People only
Change when they truly want too . But they have to admit they have an issue . They also have to put in the work and make the effort to do so . I’m not sure about this guy, he said he wishes she was dead! That’s a horrible thing to say . She needs to stop saying things as well.

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I wouldn’t just say yes they can change, it truly depends on the circumstances and type of abuse. Some types of abusers can change with therapy if and only if they want to change. But people who are physically/sexually abusive, that will always be a thought in their minds. And 99% of the time they will abuse again.

Can abusers change with therapy?

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