Currently pregnant with =3, which will be my last. Planning on announcing to family and friends soon. I've got a cousin who is the same age as me that I'm close to that has been ttc for the last 2.5 years. She's had 2 miscarriages this year and in counseling for it because it has been so hard on her. My question is, do I announce separately to her or just let the news get to her through the family grapevine? She lives in Ireland so we normally communicate via Facebook messenger. I know she'll be happy for me but saddened that its not her, which is completelyunderstandable. I've told her myself about my last two, so I feel like I should tell her this time too, but I just don't know how or what to say... Any suggestions?