Would you be married to a man that doesn’t like eating you out ?

Would you stay married to a man that just wants his blowjobs but doesn’t want to eat you out or even finger your play with your clit and only gives you sex for his satisfaction? I told him I want divorce and that I hate him for all the years of marriage I been unhappy with him. I’ve talked to him before but he said it’s not necessary to eat a girl out he only did it once in years and didn’t do it that good. I cheated on him after years of unhappiness after 3 years of marriage the person I cheated on him with even licked my ass and loves eating me out I wish my husband would’ve enjoyed doing that when I cheated I was just thinking about how I wished it was my husband who enjoyed doing that to me.