I haven’t been able to sleep much, I am currently 14 weeks pregnant, so my emotions feel like it’s like 10x heightened, my husband has been messaging one of his female co-workers and deleting the messages, the only reason I found out is because he screenshot his message log and her name was right there, with the text message “fuck you”. He claims that it was only work related, and that he deleted the messages because “he knows how I get”. Then the other day we were on FaceTime while he was at work and immediately when there was a female voice in the background he immediately hung up on me, and then claimed that it was only her as if I fucking knew her “it’s only ——-“. I don’t want to put her name, but he told me that she was only returning a speaker he had let her borrow, but it just was really suspicious, if that was the only thing why couldn’t he still be on the phone. I feel like I’m insane, and he makes me feel like I’m over reacting but I know that if the roles were reversed he’d be upset, but he claims all of this was done to avoid any arguments, but if it were truly work related messages or letting a co worker borrow a speaker, I’ve done that before, I would have literally no issues. I feel like I’m crazy, and I don’t know what to do 😭