So I’m a FTM and my baby will be a month old this week. I was looking forward to getting back into smoking after giving birth, but of course my husband got thinking too much and did a bunch of research on thc in pumped breast milk. Since he did the research, he hasn’t wanted to use any of my milk to feed the baby because he’s concerned that if the baby gets her blood drawn and they drug test her, then she might get taken away because of CPS. Due to this, I stopped smoking for a little bit so I could keep pumping and storing milk in the freezer. Now I’ve decided to wean from pumping because I enjoy smoking daily over having a drink, and pumping has become a bit too much for me right now, so any future pumped milk will be used for milk baths- because I don’t want to waste any. My husband still doesn’t want to use any milk that I’ve pumped prior to this decision because according to his research, my milk now has “drugs” in it and the baby can’t have it. As much as my husband sounds like an a$$ from this situation, he also smokes and is supportive of whatever I do, as long as the baby isn’t affected. I’m just so irritated with this whole thing, but I’m also not sure what exactly I should do with my frozen stash of milk, I know it keeps for a while and I can eventually use it for something, but I don’t want to waste it and I’m really tired of getting berated by my husband when I want to use milk with or without formula for feeding the baby.