when a guy jokes about getting you pregnant does it mean he's not serious about you? (We are not married)

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Why not consider that he is… joking?

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My ex got me pregnant then cheated on me like 3 days before our wedding. I'd say no

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Not necessarily, it could be control and manipulation. I was with an abusive man many years ago, I didn’t know he was a gang member, I met him at a party, and the first time that we had sex, He said he hopes the condom breaks. He hopes to get me pregnant because kids keep you together, red flag number one. Emotional and physical abuse for six months, banging my head against the wall screaming at me and you choking me don’t you understand how much I love you, yeah big red flags. I was never more happy to be cheated on and for him to break up with me. He threaten my life, only one I knew, you name it. It may not mean he likes you, or loves you or wants to be with you or whatever else, sometimes guys are just assholes, sometimes I look at kids as a form of trapping you, the whole staying together for the sake of the kids, guilt and manipulation, you get the picture.￼

when a guy jokes about getting you pregnant does it mean he's not serious about you? (We are not married)

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