Is it wrong what he says?

Question

My boyfriend has thrown in my face that he pays for everything and takes care of me when we are arguing . I am a stay at home mom with our daughter. We had both agreed I would be at home with her u til she starts school. But our recent fight he threw that in my face that he pays my bills and takes care of me. My bills are his bills also such as car payment insurance phone bill etc..

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It is a man’s duty to protect and provide for his family. Period. I don’t care what anyone says. 
That being said - maybe he is feeling unappreciated and is stirring the conversation up to seek praise? 
If I were you, when the argument has died down, I’d find natural moments throughout the day to praise him for what he’s doing for your family. YES, it’s very hard to be a stay at home mom, but it’s equally as hard to be a man that is worrying about and providing for all of his family’s wants and needs. Cook him his favorite meal. Tell him how much you appreciate his hard work and dedication. Tell him what a wonderful provider he is. Listen to him when he tells you about his day. Tel him what a great dad he is. In my experience, a man will move mountains for his family as long as he knows he is needed and respected.

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Yes it is wrong. By staying at home you're being denied a chance to earn your own income and be financially independent. If I were you I'd start looking for work and send your child to daycare because that's not a great sign.

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The man needs to provide. Also marriage is important with a house in your name so he doesn’t kick you out whenever he feels like it.

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Let him be a stay at home father then. I assume he also threw the " it's easy being a SAHM" card at you. Let him stay with your child so you can literally work your way right out of that relationship

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Depends how you feel about this.
Men can throw anything in your face : they may mean it or not.
I am too proud to be put in this position and would never depend on another person as long as I can work; I always like to have a plan B and C.

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Mat says all the time the things he does but says 'its not throwing it in your face, I'm just trying to make you see what I do for you' BUT having said that I understand completely that he shouldn't be saying it at all in arguments. He knows you cannot work due to staying at home with the kids so he's being an ass. Sorry if that's mean

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That’s so rude. You stay home and take care of your child together, and he throws that in your face? Especially after you both agreed to that arrangement? Sis no. 
Tell him that you both agreed to that arrangement and that you are offended every time he throws that sentence in your face. 
Find work, and either hire a babysitter, or a daycare. 
Don’t ever rely on a man financially. They always tend to throw that in our faces whenever they feel like it, or want to guilt us about it unfortunately. 
I know this, because my bf right now is financially supporting both of us until I can find work. And I hate every second of it. I have control over nothing and it’s absolutely horrible. 
Be financially independent hun.

Is it wrong what he says?

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