I was so excited when I found out I was pregnant because it took so long it was a shock to find out I was having twins as well. Me and my ex broke up about a month into my pregnancy due to his drinking and drug use and abusive treatment towards me and my 10 year old daughter, I refuse to be treated that way by anyone. My problem now is that my ex won’t do anything for the babies unless I get back together with him, which will never happen. I’m 7 months pregnant now with twins a boy and a girl I also have a lot of medical issues due to this pregnancy and he has not been to one appointment hasn’t gone to the emergency room with me at all. It’s really sad that for him to be apart of our kids life and contribute I need to be with him I don’t feel like that is fair to me at all or the babies. He also like to throw in my face that one day I will have to explain to the twin why he hasn’t been apart of their lives and that I broke up the family, it just really makes me sad that a man in his 30s is acting like a heartbroken 16 year old over issues he caused in the first place.