So my gender reveal is tomorrow evening and we will be doing a small get together with close friends and family. Mind you I didn’t want a gender reveal in the first place and would rather just know right away but my bf made a huge deal and demanded we have one. I really just didn’t want the stress of having to deal with it all. It was all very last minute because we got the gender on Monday and the reveal is on Thursday. We reserved a room at a restaurant and invited a few people each to keep it low key which for me was my mom, step dad, sister, best friend, paternal grandma and grandpa, and step mom (dad can’t make it). Well my bf ran into my aunt (mom’s side) and told her about the party and she got really offended that we didn’t invite her. So I had to invite her and my maternal grandma, plus she said obviously they will be bringing my cousin. She also told me that I need to invite my grandpa and uncle too since I’m the first grandkid/niece to get pregnant. We don’t have room for all of these people not even counting my boyfriends side of the family. It’s just too much and it’s not a big family get together. Am I the bad guy for not inviting them and not wanting all these people there (especially with covid)?