Was it too fast?

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For some reason, I started thinking about how me and my boyfriend met out of nowhere last night. I played back the whole thing and finally grasped that we met on a Wednesday, hung out on Wednesday and Thursday, and he asked me to be his girlfriend on Saturday. Fast forward, next week we’ll be hitting our four months of dating and he’s literally everything I’ve wanted in a partner. I love him a lot and he’s perfect for me.
But we had only been dating for three days before making it official and now for some reason it’s kind of making me… nervous? Like is the longevity of the relationship doomed because we moved so fast? I just need some rational opinions right now😂

Accepted Answer

No. Its not doomed but like most womem dont forget to do your dating homework. Dating is more than kisses, hugs, and i love yous. Its evaluating a man. Its examining his character, life goals, good and bad habits to see if they are beneficial or ok with your life goals. Its accessing his financial planning, stability in life, anger management, ability to resolve conflict, be honest, be loyal and commited. Wether he asked in 2 weeks to 2 months…. Women who dont do their dating homework usually end up in dire situations!

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You’re making problems where they don’t exist. It’s not about what day you started dating? It’s how your relationship progresses.

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I sucked my now fiancés dick the first time I hung out with him. AND he was in the clock at work. I was leaving work.. he was my supervisor. I had never hung out with him prior to this. Been with him over 5 years, and pregnant with our first child. Don’t think so negative.. think positivity and positive things will happen for you❤️

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Sometimes you just know 🤷🏼‍♀️

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I have the same worry.
I’m literally going through the same exact thing except … we haven’t made it OFFICIAL OFFICIAL. We’re just at the “talking” stage like I can call him my man and he can call me his girl but we haven’t made it OFFICIAL yet. 
Like he’s literally everything I’ve dreamt of , prayed for , he checked off every imaginary box on my imaginary list and plus some. 
I’m actually falling in love w this kid but I just don’t want to rush into a relationship out of love and excitement. 
Like okay , yes we both have mad love for one another and have very high hopes for one another and our relationship as one, and we both know they we want to get married and have children together one day. 
But no one can ever predict the future , like idw rush into a relationship w him and it goes good/ perfect at first. Then it goes left and down hill and we end up separating. 
We then try to be fiends but it don’t work. 
Like I don’t want that and neither does he. I rather boost what we have rn to the MAX .. so that whenever we do make it official.. and say we do break up .. 
if we try to be friends afterwards … it’ll work because before commuting to a relationship… we boosted what we currently have rn , to the max. 
But if you do what you feel is best. Do what your mind and gut say. Not your heart. 
It’s not so much OKAY to get in a relationship and then end it a few days or weeks later because you actually thunk deep into thinking you’re rushing or whatever you thunk deep about. 
If u feel you’re rushing … slow things down a bit but don’t end it. Y’all two have so much love for one another. It’s genuine so remain a couple but take baby steps.

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My husband and I were officially together 11 days after we met. We moved in together 2 weeks later. It's been four years and we are very happily building a life together. The amount of time between milestones means nothing. The feeling you have when your together is everything.

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Whether  you dated for 3 days or 3 years. If you both won't put efforts in your relationship, or both of you are just not compatible in every aspects, it's not going to last.

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You guys aren't doomed. My boyfriend and I hung out on Friday and Sunday and then were official Monday. That was almost 6 weeks ago and I couldn't be happier. He has goals and he knows mine. But eventually he wants to move and I'm not so sure about it, but it's obviously something we need to discuss in the future. Btw we are 18 and 19 so early days. Basically what I'm saying is have time to have deep conversations about life and his experiences

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I started spending the night at my husband’s house as friends every single night. We were literally living together by the time we were even official.

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My husband and I met by chance. After we initially hung out we made it official a week later. Lol we got pregnant a month after we got together and got married after 9 months of being together. He is my person and idk what I'd do without him. We've had arguments and bad times but we've been together for almost 2 years and just celebrated our 1 year wedding anniversary. It does not matter how fast or slow you take your relationship, it's about your happiness.

Was it too fast?

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