Opinions? We have waited to find out the gender until birth with our last two babies (both girls so far!) and that was the plan for this third baby as well. However, because my husband and kids can't come to any appointments with me, my husband wasn't allowed to come to the anatomy ultrasound this past week, we are feeling more disconnected from this pregnancy. It feels sort of like I'm going through it all alone instead of this being "our baby" to celebrate. So I had the ultrasound tech put the gender in an envelope just so we have the option to look or not. Maybe it will make us both feel more involved to do this little gender reveal together? But I'm afraid if we do it now we will feel disappointed that we didn't wait until birth. Thoughts from the Mamas?