Video games and boyfriend

Hey guys,

I am really annoyed, but I try to understand where he comes from and put myself in his shoes. Video games are normal for guys but I wish they would find a balance. I understand he works Monday-Friday from 3pm-1am so he does not have that much free time and he hangs out with me when I am around. When I am not around and I FaceTime him he ignores me basically by staring at the computer and me all at the same time. It irritates me and I clearly cannot tell him what it wrong he gets all upset and mad from 0 too 100 and he calls me.

I feel like this is normal and a lot of couples struggle with this.

I don’t know what to do because he then is even worse with texting.