My husband and I have been together for over 18 yrs and we are in our 30’s only…….over the last 3-4 years or so I have felt like my husband has lost feeling for me from how he treats me, talks to me and just in general treats me. Our sex life went from us having sex 2-3 times a week to now over the last year 2-5 times a month and sometimes nothing for over a month and when we do have sex it’s from behind or me laying on my stomach where he don’t have to look at me at all and last 5 min if even and usually after he’s had a few drinks………we just did Christmas with his siblings and their spouses and kids (about 24 people total) and he didn’t really speak to me or anything I tried sitting next to him but he just acted like he needed to get up and go talk with someone else or go get a beer, I have talked with his 2nd oldest sister can we are close and she could tell a a month ago something was up with how he was being and acting towards me at a birthday party so I told her everything and it felt great cuz some people think he have this amazing relationship when we don’t, we argue 10x more then we ever did, he’s put his hands on me leaving marks (I have pictures of them cuz he try’s to say he every left a mark), so while at charisma his sister kinda stayed by me talked with me and her daughter who is 25 cuz in her only aunt by marriage……I just feel like this relationship is over and I don’t know what to do anymore.