Why can’t i masturbate

Destini

I’m 25, happily married, with kids but masturbating does virtually nothing for me.

The only thing I can do is get clitoral stimulation but I can never finish because it gets too intense and I have to stop.

I’ve tried fingers and dildos and nothing… but only when I do it myself

If my husband fingers me or uses a dildo it’s great, just not when I do it to myself..

And tips? Wtf is wrong lol