when i was 13, i had a gf. she came over to my house and at the time i was very inexperienced with relationships & was very vulnerable and she knew this. we were kissing and she started taking it a step further without asking me, but i thought it was normal as i had never been in this situation before. i was uncomfortable but i didn’t say no as i was too scared too & honestly didn’t know i could. she knew i wasn’t ready for that kind of stuff and had just worked up the courage for my first kiss not even a month before. when she was done she said “i just made out with you and you didn’t even know it.” i told myself for years that i liked it and that it was my fault bc i didn’t say no but i didn’t know i could say no.