I’m kind of jealous of my daughters and husbands relationship

My daughter is 2 1/2 and she’s got my hubby wrapped around her finger. He waits on her hand and foot, anything she needs. He used to be like that for me….the thing that bothers me the most is that he gives into her alll the time and it makes it harder for me to discipline her because she knows she can just go to him and get what she wants. Additionally he is always up her butt and doesn’t let her be independent. For example, at this place called Billy beez they have all these slides and ball pits for kids to run around and have fun. He is always right on her tail wondering what she’s doing but when I look at other parents they have kids the same age and let them go off by themselves to play and check on them every once in awhile. Do you think it sounds like my hubby is too up her ass or is it just me?