He took a bottle

Hey guy's! I'm updating you on Tobias! Today he successful took a bottle. I'm hoping he's going to be able to come home before my daughter is born. He had formula and whatever colostrum I can pump out! He's such a big more. I really enjoy our time together in the NICU. I know this isn't the ideal situation. Raising the mistresses baby and all. But I feel a close connection with him. I see my husband in him. Not so much his mistress. Speaking of my husband he got a therapist and we are gonna try couples counseling after I have Presley. He's still not allowed to have sharp objects alone because of the self harming but he's doing better talking about his feelings when he feels depressed. He's using a rubber band when he feels like self harming. He snaps it. Not ideal but what's working for it. I'm glad we had another small win. I'm so happy he's taking a bottle!