so me and my boyfriend have now had sex 2-3 times the first two with a condom and i was a virgin until now so we can’t go long doing it bc it hurts me, so like the last time i bleed a little and the 3rd time we did it without a condom for about 2-5 min and he did not cum and wasn’t really even close to at this point, i then started bleeding afterwords and having brown discharge my period is late due to starting birth control last month and i just want to know if i’m okay and not pregnant and if this is all normal