I'm 34 and have two boys... 15 and 11. We decided to try for another child because I have always wanted a girl. It was a tough decision to try again as we finally have freedom and the thought of going back to nappies is terrifying!! But I thought, hey, if I want a girl it's now or never and I don't want to have regrets later in Iife. So.... we decided to take the risk.

Anyway, I found out today that I'm having another boy and I've been in tears since I found out. I know that eventually I will love this bubba and won't be able to imagine life without him, but I'm feeling devastated.

Part of me regrets trying and I feel like I have completely upturned my life for nothing.