I need some advice please

Me and my partner have been together for 6 years, we have a child together and live together. I cant even remember the last time we went out as a couple (its been years). He works 5 days a week and when he finishes work he’ll go straight to his friends house everyday after work and get stoned! On the weekends he plays football and again, when he finishes football he goes to his friends house to get stoned, he doesnt get home until 9-10pm! I dont see him during the day anymore, our relationship has gone to shit for around a year now.

Last year he left me for someone else and then 3 months later we got back together because he realised that the grass wasnt greener on the other side!!

Today he said he wants me to find someone else that makes me happy and that our time has gone for us to go out as a couple (its been years) .. when i asked him why cant we go out as a couple again and do date nights he didnt answer he stayed silent (I personally think he doesnt want to be seen in public with me or doesnt want to spend time with me)! He also said that he loves me but he doesnt…. That bit confuses me !! Then tried saying hes joking (hes got a thing with not being honest about how he feels, its like when hes honest about how he feels its like he starts to feel bad and then says he was joking… thats not something u joke about plus i know hes not joking anyway)

And that he also feels bad for me because im always stuck in doors.

I am so lost, tired, depressed and drained i have completely lost myself! I’ve been the one fighting to make this relationship work for as long as i can remember and he doesnt put in 1 bit of effort.. i love him but i just dont know how much more i can deal with this.

YES i have tried sitting down and talking to him about all of this but he just ignores me every single time so i gave up trying to communicate with him.

I just dont know what to do anymore.

Everyone tells me that im stupid that i havent walked away from him because he just treats me like shit and like im his servant.

It feels like im just living with a friend, like im flat sharing that’s genuinely how it feels.

Ive tried everything to make this relationship work, i can tell he doesnt want it.!!! He says hes so used to my company i think thats why he wont leave me.