A little upset

So currently I am waiting for my NIPT results to come back, blood drawn the 11th so we'll see. I'm pretty fine with a boy or a girl, I already have a little boy and I see nothing wrong with another one or if its a girl. My husband and his mother seem to have different opinions and I feel like regardless one of them is going to get upset that it's not what they want. I just wa t it to be healthy, that's it. I'm happy with either.

My husband is 100% hoping for another boy, he always rubs my belly and asks how his other boy is doing and I always roll my eyes at him and remind him it could still be a girl. And he usually responds with don't be cutting dicks off and to keep my lady voodoo out of it. He says these things jokingly but I feel like if it does end up being a girl he'll probably dote on our son more. He is so proud of our little boy that it upsets me to think that he wouldn't be the same way with a little girl.

His mother however is 100% hoping/actively telling me it's a girl. Always refers to it as a girl. Makes comments about how whatever is going on with me is because it's a girl. I've tried to explain to her the actual reason why I feel certain ways and she adamantly shakes her head at me and just says it's cause I am having a girl. That she can't wait to meet her. I'm however afraid that she would be the opposite and completely coddle the girl and make our son jealous of her and I don't want that at all.I really worry about her obsessing over a little girl.

Her husband doesn't care what it is, he gets another grandkid to spoil. He thinks how I think, who cares long as it's healthy. I think he knows how much the thought upsets me regardless of what it is that one of them will be different towards it. And both on different sides of the spectrum for it.

I know my mom secretly wants it to be a girl but I also know she'd be happy with another grandson. She mostly likes to make the girl comments because the look on my husband's face is quite hilarious. He is so afraid to have a daughter that he really is easy to tease for it.

I've tried to talk to them both about it but I either get the don't cut off dicks comment or no it's a girl and I didn't know where else to vent. Tha KS for coming to my Ted talk.