Did it work out with the new person or did you go back or just end up breaking the new relationship off ??? I feel like my husband wasn’t fully over his ex girlfriend/ mother of his first child when we met. 7 years later we are married. Sometimes I wonder at what point the feelings went away I don’t know why it still bothers me. He told me when I came into his life he didn’t care about her anymore and before we dated he wasn’t worried about her like that but I specifically remember on our first date she was calling his phone he was calling her crazy warning me about her spiteful behavior and I asked him if he had feelings he said he wasn’t in love with her but had love for her. He hadn’t been with anyone since her…And I asked if he would take her back he said she would really have to change… then we ended up dating and getting married having kids of our own. Not sure why this bother la me still but just wondering if this has happened to anyone else through the years she took him through hell before we even met and he stuck with her and then it got even worse when he officially cut her off for me…. I just don’t see how you could care or love someone who would try to take your child away from you reason being they are mad you moved on…I asked him recently if he cares about her in anyway and he said no. He said that about a year into dating too but when I first met him he still “had love” how does that just suddenly go away when you meet me when on our first date the feelings were still there. Is he lying to make me feel better after all we’ve been through this years with her ? She took us through so much some people say they don’t know how I stayed… trying to manipulate the child using the child as a pawn, trying to rip my husbands rights away by humiliating him in court then trying to kiss his ass by calling him a good dad when she wasn’t mad . Giving my husband that he didn’t know at the time hpv and passed it me me… cheating accusations. Yet he would always answer her calls and texts on the spot sometimes over mine … he wouldn’t talk to her around me on the phone and I didn’t meet her until I gave birth to my first son. Sometimes I feel sad that we didn’t share our first child together because of the hell she caused us.. I know I knew that when I pursued the relationship but I guess I didn’t really realize it until we actually had children of our own. I need some advice on this like truly it doesn’t make sense to me I’m really trying to understand if he actually cared about her when he said he didn’t I guess it only bothers me so much because of what we been through and I gave up living close to my family and chose him and to deal with this I guess part of me hopes he was always 100 percent into me from when we officially started dating. She called his mom when she found out I was pregnant and apparently told her that she knew it was over between them long ago but she’s upset I’m pregnant and that she knows he can be faithful and she wishes she never cheated on him when they were together. I just need some advice on this