Postpartum

So I’m curious if I’m trippin or not I had my 2nd baby a month ago and I have a 2 year old my bf started this job as security at a dispensary while I was at the end of my pregnancy . He has been working crazzzyyy hours and he doesn’t even try to spend time at home he literally picked me up from the hospital dropped me off w my new baby and toddler and went to work and has been working non stop 12hr days 7 days a week . I decided to get and IUD because I don’t want anymore kids too since since I’m 22 w 2 I want to be married and in a bigger spot before I have anymore and he’s been arguing with me and threatening to break up with me if I get it . I asked him to come with me to my appointment because I was scared and he refused to find someone to cover for him and made me go by myself then got mad that I actually got it and has been ignoring me . He’s never here he never listens to how I’m feeling I’m thinking about getting counseling for my PPD because I feel like I’m drowning in everything plus going back to work as a business owner it’s too much and for him to never be here to help I just don’t see the point anymore .