Virgin Getting Married

Hey guys! So… I’m still a virgin and I’m getting married in a few months. I have so many questions. I’m currently not on birth control and I’m like completely clueless on sex. I’m honestly super nervous for my first time. When should I get on birth control? What kind should I try? I’ve been thinking about an IUD, but I know the pill is super common. I’m just so afraid birth control is going to make me super moody. But ya girl needs all the advice you all can get. Thank you so much in advance, guys!