Hey all 👋🏼

So.. we are both in our 30s now and our past relationships that were long term ended in divorce. My best friend is a girl who’s a lesbian and I’m a heterosexual male. Strictly friends. We both have kids from our divorced partners. She adopted her son from her 16yr old sister who didn’t want her kid. And at the same time my ex and I were starting to get serious, she got knocked up. But decided to be with me and not the bio dad. So we both did have a biological child of our own. Time passed, she didn’t have more kids. My ex was somewhat infertile. Lucky to have gotten my daughter (step but daughter to me).

NOW THOUGH.. Still haven’t found love for me. Her and her fiancé want a kid. We are all getting older. In our 30s now.. her & I’s kids are nearly 9. Our kids our 3 months apart lol, so cute. Grew up together. But like.. we want another kid! I need a surrogate.. they need a sperm donor 🤷🏻‍♂️ Why not we help each other out!

They are great mom figures and I’d love to have a mom figure in my kids life. I get two and that’s ok. And vise versa with me as a dad 🙏 I was looking for a surrogate and when I brought this to my best friends attention.. She offered to carry my kid and help me be a dad again and her a mom again. Plus her partner!

Sooo.. “mom (the bestie)” remember the one carrying my kid, has enough stress and I want to help as much as possible. I love being a parent and involved!! Lol. But.. We are moving too. They are moving in with me to help me with my elderly mom living with me now after my dads unexpected passing. So to help with stress.. I got movers and making life as easy for us.. for the bestie. Into a bigger place for us and hope to become pregnant and get the nursery filled with a newborn 🥰🙈🙏

We tried on Jan 5th and 12th. She doesn’t do sex with a boy so we are using Mosie. A at home pregnancy syringe. I go in a cup, suck it up for them, give it to partner and then partner and bestie do their thing and partner puts it in bestie haha. Oh what a way to make a kid. This kid is wanted and loved already!! So much!

But.. bestie started her period 😭😩💔 On Monday. I was hoping implantation blood. But it’s kind of a lot. Not spotting. Being that my ex was infertile I know a lot cause we tried for so many years. So I’m happy I have the knowledge for this to help. Hoping the end of the month.. when she’s ovulating.. we get a kid 💪