Do you ladies have multiple kids & is it okay ..

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I have 2 kids under 3 & My husband & I want another one already .. a part of me wants to wait bc it’s not easy being pregnant / having multiple kids but the other part just wants 1 or 2 more bc Ik my husband & I can handle 😭. 
For the moms who have 2 or more kids how is it?! Ik it’s not easy but how is ittt having more than 2 kids ? I’m 24 and definitely want another or even 2 more before I hit my 30’s😭

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I told my husband I wanted to be done having kids by the time I was 30. He wants a huge family but being pregnant is hard. We have 3 girls with one on the way. I might have one more idk. It definitely is difficult at times for sure. I have a 6 year old, 3 year old and an 8 month old. My other daughter is due in June. She was completely a surprise lol. I like mine spaced out for independence reasons. I think this last one came to make one more before I'm 30 lol. But it definitely can be challenging some days and makes everything more tough but it's really wonderful. Some days you rock it and some days you don't but either way doesn't matter because it's just how it it!  Be prepared though to not fit in restaurants though. We are quickly learning that! But it was easier having our third than it was our second.  I wasnt sure I was ready for a 4th but it happened so I guess it was meant to be.

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I think the decision is really between the two of you and what you both together can handle together as a team. Each child will be different so you can't base on that when there's no way to say that they will get along or they won't. The closer in age I can tell you that they usually become friends because they have someone to play with and they'll be rather close. This can also happen with those however that are spaced apart by some years. I'm 11 yrs younger than my older brother and 11 yrs older than my little brother. With my older he felt like I was a tag along my younger I was like a mini mum. Myself my two were spaced apart by nearly three years. And the oldest is my son he is very protective of his sister. They are like best friends. I want more children as does the person I'm with hopefully we'll be graced with more soon. We've picked names enough for a small army if we actually get to use them all that'll be a blessing but you know even if we don't we'll still be blessed. That's what you need to know no matter how many it's really about the love yeah sure it can be chaotic at times but it's the love that's why one does it. Many blessing to you!

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We have two, soon to be three! However, our first two are only 21 months apart in age. We waited a lot longer for the third. We only just started trying last july/August (got pregnant first cycle) and by the time this one is born, my two will be 6 and 4! No shame in waiting if you know you want more, but your body needs rest. Also, it has been SO fun with them being older, they are so invested and love talking to baby, feeling baby move and watching my stomach move lol. When I got pregnant with my second, my first had just turned one and she literally had no idea and didn't notice anything. It's been pretty magical this time 😊

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I have 4. Ages 15, 14, 9, 1 and pregnant with my 5th. I love ever minute of it.

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Since you are young. I would definetly wait for the 2 to grow a little more. Then have another pair. That way each set still got a sibling close in age they can play with and you dont have to deal with 4 toddlers. Much as you can handle, i think the kids would havr more quality time and upbringing if you aint stretched to your limit. Give it 2 years. That way u can have one at 27, and another at 29 and you will still be below 30.  
I would only rush it if i were above 35 and i want like 2-3

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If you can handle it go for it

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I have 6 and currently pregnant with #7 . 
I am 26, oldest is 10, 8, 7, 6, 4, 1 1/2 and currently 19 weeks .

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Im pregnant with my 6th child pregnancy this time is harder and it's harder keeping up with all the kids but it has its easy days

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We have 2 under 2 and we’ve been talking about potentially adding #3 sometime soon. For us, the decision lies on our work, travel and overall life goals. It’s crazy with 2 kids (we also have a puppy and some massive aquariums that require care) but we also feel like we can handle another. I also can relate to you in personally wanting to finish my child bearing at a young(er) age (I’m older than you though, lmao… I’m 30). Think about what’s important to you guys and how a 3rd baby could potentially affect those goals. That’s all you can do in that decision making process! Just remember to consider your relationship and your finances, too :)

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I'm pregnant with number 3 Nd my others are 3 and 2 and I am not gonna lie this pregnancy has been phenomenally harder even though I've not been as sick or tired it has been rough.  Once you have two older ones there is almost zero relaxing and pregnancy is tough.  I am thankful dont get me wrong but I def have been a little taken off guard by how hard being pregnant with two toddlers has been

Do you ladies have multiple kids & is it okay ..

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